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Old 08-13-2009, 02:43 AM
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Going to the gynaecologist is embarrassing enough for me because I don't feel comfortable taking my clothes off or being partially naked in front of strangers, even if that person is a doctor. So, what kind of gynaecologist do you prefer having, a man or a woman?
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I haven't really come across a male gyno, so haven't really been hesitant or come across an embarrassing situation. Although it is still embarrassing even in front of a female gyno, but hey if something is wrong its needs to be sorted out, so leave the embarrassment at home that time
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I know, I'm actually a little glad that I didn't have a male doctor. At least the doctor I had tried to make me feel as comfortable as possible.
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Of course, I would feel more comfortable if my doctor would be a female. Is there a man in the field gynecology? I haven't encounter them yet. It would be embarrassing for me too.
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Going to the gynaecologist is embarrassing enough for me because I don't feel comfortable taking my clothes off or being partially naked in front of strangers, even if that person is a doctor. So, what kind of gynaecologist do you prefer having, a man or a woman?
I prefer the women kind
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I have not came across a male gyno, I prefer to have a female gyno, because its really embarrassing for me too to be partial naked in front of a strange man.
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I've had both a male and a female doctor. Surprisingly, the male was a lot nicer than the female. He made me feel very comfortable even though I was embarassed.

The female was okay but she tended to preacha lot to me. I need a doctor who will nicely tell me something and not act I don't know what's goingt on.

Most of my doctors are male anyway so I guess I'll stick to a male gyno too.
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There are TONS of male gynos. I don't know that I have a preference, but mine is a male and he is a great dr.

It is nothing to be embarassed about, you are a woman, they are a professional. There is nothing sexy about looking at a vagina under a sheet and seeing nothing else lol. That is why they do it that way. And anyway, there is always a nurse in the room when they do those kind of exams. Nothing to be nervous about.
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I prefer also a woman coz I am a female also. I also feel uneasy going to them especially during our annual physical exam at the office..
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There are TONS of male gynos. I don't know that I have a preference, but mine is a male and he is a great dr.

It is nothing to be embarassed about, you are a woman, they are a professional. There is nothing sexy about looking at a vagina under a sheet and seeing nothing else lol. That is why they do it that way. And anyway, there is always a nurse in the room when they do those kind of exams. Nothing to be nervous about.
Nice one there. Although I really want my gyno to be female so that i'll be at ease. I don't want a guy examining me even if he's a professional I still wonder what he's thinking at the back of his mind. O.o
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ive never been to a gynaecologist because I get my regular pap smears at my general practitioner. I am pretty sure I would want a woman though. I would just feel more comfortable with someone who shares all my same experiences.
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There are TONS of male gynos. I don't know that I have a preference, but mine is a male and he is a great dr.

It is nothing to be embarassed about, you are a woman, they are a professional. There is nothing sexy about looking at a vagina under a sheet and seeing nothing else lol. That is why they do it that way. And anyway, there is always a nurse in the room when they do those kind of exams. Nothing to be nervous about.
Well I think its easier for women outside of India, and being in India well having a man as a gyno wouldn't work very well, therefore I dont think you would find any male gyno's! And women hardly go to a male doctor for any women related issues. Its just the atmosphere in India, and how men are less trusted in these situations.
Being brought up in India I would too prefer a female gyno!
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I think generally most women would prefer a female doctor no matter what country they are in. I would prefer to have a female doctor, too. I know that the nurse is there to assist the doctor, but it doesn't help having two strangers see you naked.
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Male gynac's are more than the female one's and some of the females choose to go to male doc's as they care for the females.

Male's have a tendency to be attracted and not harm them so male's will be more careful than the female one's (many may not agree but this is the fact as I am a Dr too )

Its good if a female gyanc is there to take care of you but if you had to go to a male then do not hesitate, we are will trained to be proffessionals.
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I prefer male gynecologists by far because I find them to be much nicer than the female ones. Mine is extremely gentle and always makes me feel very comfortable during my visits.
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I always had a male gynaecologist when I was having my children. Now that I am not going to have any more children, I go to one of the lady nurse practitioners for my yearly exam. I have no problem with using a male doctor.
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I used to go to a male doctor and I loved him. He was great and gentle. He delivered my daughter. I have had other doctors that aren't as gentle, both men and women.

Right now I'm seeing a woman doctor. I'm not having anymore children either and I just feel more comfortable with her.
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Sometimes I think this would all be easier if the person who performed the exam was a robot, just have the whole process automated. Wouldn't that be nice? It would be more objective, but then the robot would be constantly collecting data and recording. That could get a little weird....
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I would prefer to have a woman. I'm not sure that I would trust a man. Maybe I've just watched too much scary movies and things, but I'm just worried about getting some creep or something
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I prefer women doctors because they are more sensitive and more careful. I had a bad experience with a male doctor when I started having labor pains. He performed an internal examination of my cervix without using a gel and I nearly kicked his face.
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The woman that I had was talking to me during the procedure, and I thought it was a pretty welcome distraction to have. I almost forgot that I was getting an exam done...almost.
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I know a person who would prefer a male gynecologists. they say they are better than female gynecologists. Anyway, I still haven't tested it since my gynecologists is a woman. But if I will just imagine a male gynecologists, it makes me feel shy. but since its their profession, they are just doing there jobs
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I've never had a male gynecologist, but I think the reason that they're nicer is because they're trying extra hard to make the woman feel as comfortable as possible. Having a male doctor look at you while you're naked can be unsettling, and they are aware of this fact.
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Male gynac's are more than the female one's and some of the females choose to go to male doc's as they care for the females.

Male's have a tendency to be attracted and not harm them so male's will be more careful than the female one's (many may not agree but this is the fact as I am a Dr too )

Its good if a female gyanc is there to take care of you but if you had to go to a male then do not hesitate, we are will trained to be proffessionals.


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I don't think I could bear to look the gynocologist in the eye if I had a male doctor, let alone talk to him. I think I would be more likely to run out of the room or something.
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