No matter how well you dress but if you want the right attitude to carry that dress then you need to wear high heels. Many fashion experts advise it to be worn too get that attitude in you. Your saree will never look graceful without the heels. But be aware do not wear them at the cost of your spinal cord. Fashion should not be followed blindly; it should be based on comfort. If you are not comfortable in high heels and do not like wearing flats that go in for mid sized heels that will get you comfort and attitude at the same time.

Your spinal cord will still feel uncomfortable.... even if you feel comfortable wearing high heels , in fact the more comfortable you are wearing high heels the more uncomfortable your spinal cord probably is ....

as your comfort in high heels would mean that you have been wearing them often

High heels are not for me, sorry. First off, I am rather tall, so I don't need them, but even if I disregard that fact, they are so uncomfortable to wear. I can deal with medium heels, but even that is not something I like, so I do it on a very rare occasion. And you are right about the spinal cord, too.

I'm in love with heels...and won't give them up even to spare my spine!!!

I actually find flats really uncomfortable...THAT hurts my back...

Even though I consider myself short and would have liked to be taller, high heels aren't for me. I'm a little clumsy, so you can see why me and high heels don't mix.

That's just weird mine is the other way around. Sometimes high heels makes my feet tired after wearing it the whole day. Imagine keeping yourself balanced with just the front of your toe as a support.

It comes easier with practice!! You might try going to payless and getting a cute pair of low wedge heels just to "get your feet wet" so to speak and wear them around the house and out and about. Once you get use to them and it gets closer to the wedding go ahead and buy your shoes you are going to wear...not only to get use to them, but to break them in. This will prevent blisters on your feet from wearing new shoes all day long and from slipping and falling with slick bottom shoes.

I love heels and am comfortable walking around.. Flats are something which i cant carry off well, i dont know why my legs slips off when am in flats..

I love heels, as well as flats but I prefer heels. Because they come in many different styles, its nice to wear the different kinds with different dresses. Majority of people don't really have a problem with their spine, neither have I heard of anyone who has kind of damaged their spine, because of wearing heels all the time, of course Ive heard about it from the telly, but thats about it.

My collection of heels is more than my collection of flats, and just recently its been added with a pair of Jimmy Choos!!!!!!