Have you ever considered being a surrogate mother? Would you use a surrogate mother to have your children? If you want children without the having the deal with the physical changes this could be for you.

No, I have never thought of it. If I turned out to be unable to have children, I would leave it at that, I would not go to crazy extremes to get a child. I don't judge those who do that, but I don't understand them.

I'm not sure I could do it. It would scare me, because I wouldn't be in charge. I wouldn't know what the mother is doing, what she's eating. It would freak me out quite a bit. I'd rather adopt.

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-Brittany Brydahl

If I were unable to bear children, I would rather have stayed without children. I can't contemplate having someone else carry a child for me in their womb - it just wouldn't be the same.