My sister needed some advice. There was this guy who confessed he likes her but he is not actually courting her. He is currently studying in the other country but he never missed to call or checked her up. He once told her to wait but recently the communication stopped. Now, her best friend asked if it would be fine to court her. My sister is quite confused, what do you think she should do?

Do you love your best friend? I mean, do you love that person more than just a friend? Does your best friend knew about the situation you are into? If you like that person, then I guess, you should give it try. You don't have to wait for the other person. Just live with your present and be happy.

Hey, yeah. She should keep her options open. After all, she's not married, she isn't committed to anyone, and no one is really committed to her. Why place such restrictions on herself when none are called for under the present circumstances? Besides the other guy is abroad and for all intents and purposes, he's just a caring friend too. As you say, he hasn't committed.

I guess, I should ask my sister about that, right? She would eventually forget the other guy. Actually, we don't have a problem with regard to her best friend. He's one of the nicest person I met.

There is nothing wrong with accepting suitors if she is not committed to anyone. Who knows she may even find the better man among her suitors. The best friend may make a better partner, having known each other longer.

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Does your sister already committed with that guy? I guess, if not, she still have the freedom to choose between them. There are some man who talked a lots of waiting what so ever, but the fact they had been looking for another girl especially if it is a long distance relationship.

There could be nothing wrong if she entertain her best friend. If she is happy with him, then pursue it. Have she tried to contact the other guy? She better do that to clarify things.

Bethoven, it depends upon how long the waiting time is. If it is just a month or two that they don't have communication, I will say still wait for a couple of months. But if it is waiting for him for a year, i think it is right to entertain someone again.

I agree with you Miss Petit, if the waiting is quite too long, it wouldn't be wrong if she entertain suitors. In the first place, she is not committed with him. Does she love the other guy so much?

If she's not sure what to do then I think she should wait, but if she's leaning towards one person or the other, then I would say go for it! I look at life as, you only live it once, so you gotta do what makes you happy