(sigh)

I'm curious as to how other women think of this.

I just want to know, when can you feel that you're falling for someone else?

Or just even how can you tell if you like someone?

Well according to me, its just something special and a special feeling which you have when you know you have fallen in love with someone, its something that can not be explained, and its just from your inner self you know that hes the one and you love him. I married my first love and when I met him I knew he was the one

It's a bit complicated.
You may feel an initial attraction to a person and then feel the attraction going away as you come to know him better, or
you may not feel an initial attraction but feel something deeper as you get to know him more.

__________________
"When you have nothing to do, anything is worth doing, including surfing the internet!"

You will know when you are falling for someone. They are always on your mind. You can't wait to be with that person and never want to leave them. You will always be happy and feel good when with him.

Sometimes we are mislead of what we feel. We thought that we already love someone but actually we're only attracted to that person. In my opinion, regardless of what the person looks, when you accept his flaws and everything about him, that could be something. Feelings are quite unexplainable. You'll never know it until you feel it, right?

You know it when you like someone. You find them interesting and fun, pleasant to be around, and you know there might be a bit more to it, too. You may be feeling a little shy or undertain in their presence - that's because you want to make the best impression, you wouldn't want to say or do anything they dislike. You might also feel a little jealous when someone else shows attention to this person.

I think you would know if you like a person because you would most likely hope you're with that person always. Another proof is that, when you accepted him, all the imperfections he had and even the negative thoughts of other people about that person. Actually, you alone could tell if you feel something special for a person. For me, it cannot be explain, do you agree?

I know I'm falling for someone when I can't stop thinking about him and when I get excited to learn that he's going to be attending some event I'm going to. Also the knowledge of his being there would be impetus for me to go to the event whereas if he weren't going to be there, I probably would not go myself.

I guess, all experienced the same way, right? But whenever you knew that person actually like or even love you, do you usually pursue on your feelings? I'm just curious if you'd usually give it a try.

This is way too exciting. I may not be that brave to confess my feelings to a guy of course I do it indirectly. But not being a stalker or anything like that. I happen to see this guy who took a vacation at his sister's house which is actually our neighbor before. I was always eyeing on him and I feel like he's eyeing on me too. Then his friend told me to go on a date with me well I was stupid to ignore it I thought it wasn't for real. o.o

You don't you show your feeling to someone who's worth it? However, their are some who said that its not right that a women would show her feeling to a guy. What if the guy wants you too but he is just afraid to approach you?

If a woman is attracted to a man and she wants to know if he feels the same I think that she should approach him. Man have feelings and many are afraid of rejection.

each would have several opinions on how to tell that you in love with some one or not. But i"m quite sure if your were able to accept all the shortcomings he did and like i've said the imperfections in him then that would be time you would know you are in love.

For me, I get butterflies when I'm around someone I like. I go out of my way to talk to that person or be near that person. I just know..

Can you give us more details.. like, how do you act around this person? How often do you think of them? Do you act any different when they are near to try and get them to notice you?

Speaking for myself, I know that I am falling in love when I can think of nothing but the other person and that I feel this strange feeling that is all warm and fuzzy, paired with butterflies in my stomach. I also tend to dream about the person very often as I am falling in love with them as well.

I have no idea! I've heard from a few of my married friends, and friends who are happily in relationships that they "just knew" And from reading these posts, I'm thinking that my boyfriend isn't the one. I don't feel those butterflies for him... infact, we live in two different countries and I don't find myself missing him.

Telltale signs for me would be:
1. I can't stop thinking of that person.
2. I consider my actions in terms of what that person would think of it.
3. When I find out that special person is going to be some place I'm going to be, I get really excited and look forward to the event.
4. If the person is leaving town for a while and I'm not going to see him/her for a while, there seems to be something missing in my life.

Another thing I wanted to add to that is: I comfortable around them, like I can be who I am without them saying I'm annoying or criticizing me. It's hard to find, but you'll know when you do. No one should make you feel like you're not good enough. They chose to be with you, so they should take you as you are.

This is why I just had to break up with my last boyfriend.. he just didn't accept me for me. He'd always get embarrassed with me in public when I was hyper and just being crazy. He didn't understand my anxiety and he just wasn't a fit for me. I put up with it longer than I should have, but at least I got out I'm proud of myself for doing that!!

I say, if you're unsure, then it's not right. When it's right, you'll know it and you won't be able to see yourself with anyone else. All you'll think about is them. Finally, I've found that. I hope all of you do too

It is easy to know when you like someone in a special way, as you get stirred emotions very often and you'll be focusing on that person very often. You will also probably picture yourself in many situations with him. Those are the things I feel when I know I like someone.