We can't really deny the fact that their are some guys that who are two timer. Unfortunately, one of my cousin encountered a boyfriend who's like this. Before, they broke up because of this issue. Currently, the guy tried to court again my cousin, luckily, my cousin didn't accepted him because, while he was courting her, she found out that this guy was also trying to court her other friend. What can you say about this guy? What do you think is the best way to teach him a lesson?

Well just one word for him really a*** h***! The two timing git, he probably thinks hes all that and you cousin will want to be with him. When its about teaching the guy a lesson it depends on how far your cousin wants to go, she can always get him drunk then undress him and then tie him up to a lamp post!

Or simply ignore him and give him attitude and make him feel unwanted!

Hi shama, thank you for responding my post. I guess, your second idea would be accepted. I don't think so if my cousin could do your first option.LOL! You know what I'm scared of? Maybe my cousin still in love with him. Do you think their could be a posibility that my cousin would be blinded with this guy?

you should court him and then when he becomes interested in you,
then you should go with someone else and teach him how it feels
to be on the receiving end

I think, that could be a good idea, farce. But, what if her emotion wont take it well? I guess, it would always end up into girls suffering.

That was not a serious suggestion ;-)

I think you shouldn't think about teaching him a lesson.
Just ignore him and move on. why do you want to escalate it.

-F

I guess, moving on is the best thing to do. Does your cousin still communicate with this guy? If she does, I think she's not yet ready let him go.

I would say that he is a total loser and has no respect for women; therefore a waste of time. I would never waste my time nor my energy on people like that. There are lots of serious and genuinely loving people out there who are seeking to enter into a nice, respectful relationship. It is better to take one's time and try to meet someone like that or just stay single.

:-j Riddiculous guy! He's not worth being your boyfriend. Don't even think of falling into that kind of guy it will only bring you pain and tears. But don't cha worry this boy will someday meet the girl that will make him change his bad habits.

Recently, I asked her about this situation. Guess what? nothing change, this guy still sending her a text message. For me, I can't say that he really love my cousin, he didn't even tried to visit her and talk this problem. Do you agree guys, that this man is a coward.

We could see if that person is sincere to her if he'll do some moves to communicate your cousin personally. Why don't you suggest her to change her phone number so that he wont be able to make communication with her anymore?

The man is not exactly a coward but he is insensitive. He does not give a damn to the feelings of your cousin. He is concerned only with his own feelings. We may also call him selfish, if you want.

I don't think coward is the exact term for him at the moment. It's more like greedy who takes advantage of girls. I bet your cousin fell for him already so she doesn't want to do something about this.

Well, I agree with you, mamabear. Maybe that man had not yet fully matured with his life. How old is he? I mean, is he older or younger with your cousin?

This guy may be a coward but he is also dishonest. He probably did not try to visit or talk to her because he does not see the situation as being a "problem". It is easy to send a text message. It is impersonal. If your cousin can block his attempts to communicate with her then the guy would get the message that she is not interested.

Is your cousin still in love with that man? She doesn't deserve such guy. For me, the best thing she could do is not to entertain him at all. Just move on. She could probably find a man worthy of her love.

Maybe, that term coward would really describe this kind of man. Come to think of this guys, what if her cousin and that man would accidentally meet along the road and the guy would insist to talk to her. Do you think it would be alright to give him chance to talk?

I don't think he is coward, he is just an insincere person. I hope this man would realize that it is not good to toy on girls. Was your cousin able to move on? She should ban him. He would do no good to her.

What could be wrong with that? I mean, if I were in her shoes, I would still talk to him. I supposed her cousin has already moved on that time. For me, there is nothing wrong if they become friends.

Of course if it went well to both of them they should be friends. There's nothing wrong in befriending someone who once cheated on you because both of you should move on.

When the boyfriend cheated on his girlfriend he was also dishonest. People can remain friends following a break up; however, the character of the boyfriend is questionable. Who would want to befriend someone when you know he or she cannot be trusted?

Why on earth that people don't get contented with their respected partner. Well, this is not new to me I've experience such things like this. I just said to myself Its not my lost afterall.

I'm with you on that, d3stiny. Sometimes, it's really a sad thing to recall. However, it's already on your memory and not so easy to erase it. Do you know that this guy which I am talking is only strong enough to make a phone call with my cousin when he is drunk? Do you think that what boys are?

Do you think people mean what they say when they are drunk? For me, it is very improper. I don't think alcohol would help a person express himself. It's just a state of mind.

I say, no contact. Get him out of your life. He's not worth your time. Ignore him completely and eventually, he'll give up and move on to someone else